If he doesn't have a job, it's understandable that he won't want to lead with that, but if he won't even elaborate when pressed, he either (1) does something shady as hell for a living or (2) is just fine with lying a lot.14. It's one thing if he's being a gentleman and doesn't want you to make a long drive out to see him.It's another if he freaks out at the prospect of you being within a 20-mile radius of his home.15. Either he has low self-esteem, doesn't care about pictures, or that picture is not at all indicative of him. This clearly shows that your guy is definitely not a relationship-keeper. One of the most unnoticed relationship red flags is related a girl ignoring the fact that her guy is too suspicious and always wears a cloak of secrets which he never reveals much at all.
You shouldn't be one to judge a book by its cover, obviously, but if he's actively trying to deceive people, that says a lot about his personality.
And to be totally fair, physical chemistry is still important.16. If he talks to you constantly but doesn't meet up, or have social media profiles, or ever want to video chat ... Start doing reverse image searches (and don't forget to flip the image in case he's doing the same thing to throw you off the scent).
He Says: When we encounter a woman who's hesitant to share her age, we assume her life is on a strict, predetermined time line and her biological clock is ticking.
We're concerned she'll want to define the relationship after three weeks and get engaged after three months.
This clearly points to his sheer carelessness towards helping the relationship move forward on to bigger and better things.